Friday 30 October 2015

You don't have to do what everyone else is doing...

"Heyyyyyy, yaaaaaaaa!" Forgive me as I quote "Outcast" people. Damn, music back then was poppin. How are you guys? Hopefully you are peachy and just fabulous, and if not, allow me to sprinkle some happy dust on you. *Sprinkles dust* LOL I'm crazy ya'll you know this already. Anyway, I'm sitting here in Starbucks now sippin one of the most amazing freakin fraps (Pumpkin Frapp, go and get that ishh right away) and I am having a moment of deep, insightful awakening. This my friends, is the notion that you can live your live exactly the way YOU want to live it. Let us both meditate on these words for a moment. You can live your life exactly the way that YOU want to live it. Now, I have mentioned this in my other blog posts, but I am a super sensitive person. I am not going to deny that. As a matter of fact, for all of my sensitive souls out there, your sensitivity is actually a gift. You have the ability to relate to others on an emotional level, while also tapping into your logic. Pretty cool if I do say so myself. Moving further, I sometimes have the tendency to get offended easily. If someone says something regarding my persona as a more reserved person perhaps, and this is usually involving people of a much more extroverted nature, I tend to feel uncomfortable and judged.

Or, a more popular comment, especially amongst young people, is the notion of turning uppp and all the way up and if you aren't drinking, partying, and being what society deems as cool, you are just weird. I know for a fact at least ONE of my readers can relate to this. Now on my part, I just need to learn not to get offended so damn easily, and that my friends, with all things in this life, comes with time and I will get there. However, I have learned something positive from these encounters, and that is that you live your life the way you want to live it. If you feel like turning all the way up, turn up, but don't judge someone else for not having the same experiences that you have had. For me right now, I'm focused on becoming a better writer, building confidence and resiliency, discovering my God given purpose, and just being an all around kick ass person. We are all here to live our individual lives and enjoy happiness, success, and all the other goodies that come along with this life. However, as you will realize as time goes on, someone will always have something to say to you, whether it be positive or negative, but remember that you don't have to take in what everyone says to you, as in to become an external mold, built from the opinions of others. This is why it is often a struggle to find ourselves in life, because there are so many damn expectations of who and what we should be. But, the only person you were created to be, is yourself. I am still learning that myself, and cannot wait for the day where I can fully and confidently stand in my truth, whatever that is. As Eleanor Roosevelt put it best, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." So, do you and do what makes you happy. :)